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Hvad tager du for givet?

12.09.2014 by ChristinaAROS // Leave a Comment

Vi gør det alle! Tager noget eller nogen for givet!

Lige indtil det ikke længere er der!

Halloooooo, lød det fra min hoveddør, som åbenbart havde åbnet sig af sig selv.

Halloooo, er der nogen lød stemmen, som jeg overhovedet ikke kendte.

Jeg gik ud i gangen iført min morgenkåbe og morgenhår, og der i døren stod en ældre herre iført orange arbejdstøj. Ja han havde nærmest halvdelen af kroppen inde i min gang.

Ja, jeg ville bare lige sige at vi lukker for vandet!

WHAT!

Min første tanke var: Guuud har jeg glemt at betale en regning, men det vidste jeg godt at jeg ikke havde. Det kører nemlig helt automatisk, for ellers kan jeg hurtigt glemme det, men det kører over min husleje til min udlejer.

Men altså vandet ville blive lukket af fra 11-16?

Yes det stod der på sedlen; 16?

Så jeg stod der i mit fineste morgenoutfit på vej i bad, og så blev vandet lukket.

Nå men i gang med at få fyldt et par kander med vand og så gik jeg videre med min dag, og tænkte ikke lige så meget over det.

Liiiige indtil jeg stod foran spejlet på badeværelset iført ansigtsmaske!!!!

For filan altså, hvor belastende er det at stå der iført grøn maske i krydderen og så komme i tanke om, at der ikke er noget vand i hanerne.

Det fik mig virkelig til at tænke over, hvor ofte jeg tager sådan noget som vand, varme, strøm, køleskab osv. helt for givet og som en selvfølge, at jeg har det.

Hvor tit bruger du egentlig tid på at være taknemmelig over de ressourcer, de mennesker og de privilegier du har i din hverdag!

Ofte (min egen oplevelse og påstand) lægger vi ikke mærke til alle de værdier og privilegier vi har i hverdagen, før de er væk. Hvad enten det er vandet, kæresten, familien, pengene, oplevelserne, og i det hele taget LIVET.

Ja, jeg er taknemmelig for hver dag, jeg har. Jeg er taknemmelig for de mennesker, der er i mit liv og for de muligheder livet tilbyder mig. Også de der snot udfordrende ting 2014 har budt på, for de lærer mig rigtig meget om mig selv.

Men jeg glemmer nogle gange de små men meget vigtige ting som at være taknemmelig for at jeg har rindende vand i hanerne, varme i radiatorerne, kan åbne køleskabet og finde et eller andet spiseligt (det meste af tiden :-)) Det er da en dagligdagsluksus som er værd at være taknemmelig for set her fra mit filosofiske hjørne sådan en råkold grå tirsdag i december.

Så hvad og hvem kan du vise din taknemmelighed til i dag?

 

(og ja den grønne maske kom af, da jeg lige havde tænkt mig lidt om- havde jo lidt vand i køleskabet, og brugte meget lidt)

 

Love & Light

Christina

 

 

 

 

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Kategorier // Gratitude, Taknemmelighed Tags // light, love, taknemmelighed, vand

Is it possible to fall in love with Everyone? Including danish version

05.09.2014 by ChristinaAROS // Leave a Comment

Is it possible to fall in love with everyone? DANISH VERSION HERE

Does it really matter whom you are with, whom you choose to be in a relationship with ?

Isn’t it just about the effort you do?

Can you build up love as easily as you can break it?

Oh my word, I’ve philosophized about these questions so many times after my hubby through 21 years divorced me.

The man I met when I was 16 , the man I had children with and the only man I’ve known romantically as an adult.

Is it really true, that you grow apart or has it something to do with the effort ?

I have been divorced for over 6 years and have had a couple of relationships and each time it strikes me how essential the amount of effort has on the quality of the relationship.

It’s a bit like the Casino

If you are willing to risk a lot, you might win a lot, yea sure you can lose!
If you risk a little, you’ll win a little, and yeah you can lose as well, but then you don’t feel you’ve lost that much, do you?

BUT WHAT IF YOU WON?

Would you then regret you didn’t went for the big one, would you regret, that you didn’t won the big prize!

I believe that in one way or another this also applies to relationships and in general interaction between people
The more we dare to Invest the greater the benefit/prize we get when we win

And yes , we also risk losing

But isn’t it worth risking anything to get the big prize

LOVE

Michael Jordan said: I miss all the shots I don’t take !

Is exactly the same with relationships

if you don’t dare to risk it all and give it all, you lose !

Well I’m afraid of getting hurt !

NO shit Sherlock !

aren’t we all!

Honestly, none of us want to be hurt and especially not when your heart is open and vulnerable.

But if you don’t make an effort, if you don’t even try, you’ve already lost.

You never lose by loving, you always lose by holding back love!

Love expands the more it is nurtured , cared for and given freely !

Love wither and die in both heart and soul when held back and it’s not getting the attention and care!

I’ve often wondered about people who are unfaithful and always said that if they behaved the same way towards their partner , they would probably have a different life and relationship.

What if you sent small juicy hot and sexy messages to your partner ?

What if you met with you ​​partner at a secret place, like the Woods, a hotel or similar ?

What if you secretly called each other?

What if you surprised each other much more?

What if you spoiled your partner in the same way as you would with a lover or mistress ?

The grass is always greener the places it’s watered and fertilized !

And then back to my first question

Is it possible to fall in love with anyone?!

Yes, of course there has to be attraction, passion, chemistry and all that stuff but how do you create that?

Through action !

Yes we have more physical attraction to some than to others but if we don’t do something about it, it is just:

High energy between two people because we’re vibrating on the same channel !

But a relationship is only created by initiative and actions and must be maintained or else, both love and relationship will vanish.

I do believe you can build love just as fast as you can lose it, if you are willing , open and dare to invest in love !

But first and the most important thing is to love yourself.

The more you love yourself the more you are open to receive love
When you trust and believe that you are worthy of love then you will also be able to love more fully and receive love, letting it into your heart and your life

And yes we all have the fear, but if we want love in our lives, we must act in spite of fear and past experiences

It’s spring so let your self love blossom !

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Kategorier // autenticitet, Authenticity, glæde, happiness, in love, kærlighed, Love Tags // forelskelse, in love, kærlighed, love, relationship

Bog Release

08.27.2013 by ChristinaAROS // Leave a Comment

Bog Release.

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Kategorier // Authenticity, Love, Personal Success, Shadows Tags // authenticity, book releas, love

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