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Is it possible to fall in love with Everyone? Including danish version

05.09.2014 by ChristinaAROS // Leave a Comment

Is it possible to fall in love with everyone? DANISH VERSION HERE

Does it really matter whom you are with, whom you choose to be in a relationship with ?

Isn’t it just about the effort you do?

Can you build up love as easily as you can break it?

Oh my word, I’ve philosophized about these questions so many times after my hubby through 21 years divorced me.

The man I met when I was 16 , the man I had children with and the only man I’ve known romantically as an adult.

Is it really true, that you grow apart or has it something to do with the effort ?

I have been divorced for over 6 years and have had a couple of relationships and each time it strikes me how essential the amount of effort has on the quality of the relationship.

It’s a bit like the Casino

If you are willing to risk a lot, you might win a lot, yea sure you can lose!
If you risk a little, you’ll win a little, and yeah you can lose as well, but then you don’t feel you’ve lost that much, do you?

BUT WHAT IF YOU WON?

Would you then regret you didn’t went for the big one, would you regret, that you didn’t won the big prize!

I believe that in one way or another this also applies to relationships and in general interaction between people
The more we dare to Invest the greater the benefit/prize we get when we win

And yes , we also risk losing

But isn’t it worth risking anything to get the big prize

LOVE

Michael Jordan said: I miss all the shots I don’t take !

Is exactly the same with relationships

if you don’t dare to risk it all and give it all, you lose !

Well I’m afraid of getting hurt !

NO shit Sherlock !

aren’t we all!

Honestly, none of us want to be hurt and especially not when your heart is open and vulnerable.

But if you don’t make an effort, if you don’t even try, you’ve already lost.

You never lose by loving, you always lose by holding back love!

Love expands the more it is nurtured , cared for and given freely !

Love wither and die in both heart and soul when held back and it’s not getting the attention and care!

I’ve often wondered about people who are unfaithful and always said that if they behaved the same way towards their partner , they would probably have a different life and relationship.

What if you sent small juicy hot and sexy messages to your partner ?

What if you met with you ​​partner at a secret place, like the Woods, a hotel or similar ?

What if you secretly called each other?

What if you surprised each other much more?

What if you spoiled your partner in the same way as you would with a lover or mistress ?

The grass is always greener the places it’s watered and fertilized !

And then back to my first question

Is it possible to fall in love with anyone?!

Yes, of course there has to be attraction, passion, chemistry and all that stuff but how do you create that?

Through action !

Yes we have more physical attraction to some than to others but if we don’t do something about it, it is just:

High energy between two people because we’re vibrating on the same channel !

But a relationship is only created by initiative and actions and must be maintained or else, both love and relationship will vanish.

I do believe you can build love just as fast as you can lose it, if you are willing , open and dare to invest in love !

But first and the most important thing is to love yourself.

The more you love yourself the more you are open to receive love
When you trust and believe that you are worthy of love then you will also be able to love more fully and receive love, letting it into your heart and your life

And yes we all have the fear, but if we want love in our lives, we must act in spite of fear and past experiences

It’s spring so let your self love blossom !

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Kategorier // autenticitet, Authenticity, glæde, happiness, in love, kærlighed, Love Tags // forelskelse, in love, kærlighed, love, relationship

What defines you?

01.23.2014 by ChristinaAROS // Leave a Comment

Yesterday I heard the most incredible woman with a story, you wouldn’t wish for anyone in the world to have.

I had the privilege to hear the award winning standup comedian and motivational speaker, Kathy Buckley.

She is born deaf and put in a school for retarded, and it wasn’t until the age of 8 they figured out she was deaf. She experienced sexual abuse from her father and a friend, she has been diagnosed with cancer twice and at the age of 20 all her bones in her body was broken because a truck ran her over. The doctors told her that she would never be able to walk again.

But she did! Guess she didn’t heard them!

She learned herself to speak by the help of the vibrations through a balloon, she learned to lip read people, she learned herself to walk again by daily swimming, she forgave her dad, and in her first 30th got proper hearing aid and now experienced all the things most of us take for granted like singing birds, the traffic, farts (lol).

The girl diagnosed and labelled retarded is now an award winning comedian and international motivational speaker helping others to transform their lives and she is doing it by being herself, an authentic shining star willing to change her thoughts so they support her and propel her forward.

So don’t let your past define you.

Dont let your self sabotaging thoughts define you and destroy your present and future.

Don’t complain about your life, your weight or all the other stuff people usually complain about.

Be grateful for everything in your life, allow yourself to shine and value yourself each and every day.

If you find it difficult try this exercise Kathy guided us through

Close your eyes and imagine you just woke up in the morning, not able to move your body not even your head, not able to speak or tell people you hurt or how you feel.

You still don’t think you have something to be grateful for?

keep this in mind:

“No one value you more than you value yourself”

love & light

Christina

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Kategorier // Authenticity, emotions, Gratitude, happiness, Love, motivation Tags // comedian, deaf, gratitude, Kathy Buckley, motivational speaker, value

Gode rabatter og tur guide!!

09.11.2013 by ChristinaAROS // Leave a Comment

Lige nu finde du gode rabatter på min nye bog samt på efterårets workshops og foredrag, hvis du er hurtig til at tage en beslutning og melde dig til.

FOREDRAG I EFTERÅRET

Kom til foredrag for KUN 150 kr.

Torsdag den 3.10.2013 Ringsted (WIB-arrangement med fuck flinkeskolen – billetter gennem WIB)
Mandag den 28.10.2013 Sønderborg
Tirsdag den 29.10.2013 Haderslev
Torsdag den 31.10.2013 Viborg
Mandag den 11.11.2013 Svendborg
Onsdag den 13.11.2013 Holbæk


Billetter købes på http://www.arosbyaros.dk/

Balance i Krop og Sjæl – heldagsworkshop (10.00-16.30)

KUN 15 PLADSER PR.DAG

Kun 995 kr

BONUS en gratis plads på et af mine foredrag
Torsdag den 3.10.2013 Ringsted
Mandag den 28.10.2013 Sønderborg
Tirsdag den 29.10.2013 Haderslev
Torsdag den 31.10.2013 Viborg
Mandag den 11.11.2013 Svendborg
Onsdag de 12.11.2013 Holbæk

Billetter købes på http://www.arosbyaros.dk/

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Kategorier // Authenticity, Love, Personal Success, Shadows Tags // billetter, bonus, christina aros, foredrag, workshop

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